This morning we had a wonderful retreat for our palliative care section with a lot of thoughtful reflection and stimulating discussion. One of the prompts was this: imagine if you could own any building you wanted, what would you pick and why?
I was shocked by how quickly something came to mind.
When I was a kid, we lived in Tokyo for 3 1/2 years. It was a confusing, yet transformative, period of my life. It sparked in me a lifelong love of travel and foreign culture and adventure and new foods that I’ve never lost.
I remember visiting a toy store on a busy street after a long train ride. It was a small store, with several stories and lights that didn’t flicker but warmed. And it was packed, floor to ceiling, with toys – strange and unusual Japanese toys, wonderfully mysterious creations, robots and figurines and puzzles and games like I’d never seen before. It was a magical experience. I remember passing by other kids in there, eyes wide mouths open, like we were caught in a communal dream.
Whenever I think about it, I see it wrapped in fog, and there are times when I wonder if it ever existed, or if I made the whole thing up in my mind. Either way, it fills me with warmth.
When I was younger, I wanted to own that building for the toys – for that mountain of treasure – because even though I couldn’t speak the language, I knew how to play. Now that I’m older, I don’t really care about the toys, though I’d still want to own that shop.
I’d sit there behind the counter, pretending to read a book, secretly watching the joy and wonder and awe and mystery and magic sweep over the kids. I’d sit there and watch that memory form, let it heal the parts of me that ached.
To flip the lights on every day and give that to the world, I think, would be worth it. To know that I had a hand in such happiness, in such a beautiful reminder that the world can be a safe and spectacular place and not so terrifying.
To be a part of that, I think, is what this whole thing is all about.